Too young to marry…

 Hi!
 Hi…
 Unjani?
 Niphilile, enkosi. Unjaniwena?
 On top, enkosi.
 How’s life`?
 Great! Yourself?
 All right.
 Cool.
 So, what are you doing here?
 A voluntary service.
 Really? Where?
 Here in mfuleni?
 That’s great! Where do you stay?
 Here in mfuleni?
 Ok. Where exactly?
 Somewhere around… that direction.
 Where??
 That direction.
 Ok. So, how long do you stay?
 I’ll be here for one year.
 Really?
 Yeah! We are leaving next august!
 Ohh that’s great! So… you look beautiful!
 Thank you.
 How old are you?
 Guess!
 Mhh… 25?
 No
 I dunno, 27?
 Nooo! 20.
 Oh really? May I ask you a question?
 Of course.
 Ok, but it’s a personal question.
 It’s fine.
 Do you have a boyfriend?
 No.
 No???? why?
 Why? Why not!??
 and in germany?
 NO! no means no.
 Ohh ok. Well… you know, I like you.
 Izzit? (is it)
 Yeah...you know, you are very nice. Could you give me your cell phone number?
 No, I don’t give my number to somebody I don’t know.
 But you’ll get to know me then! I will call you and we can meet!
 No. you don’t get my number today. Forget about that.
 But, please man… I…ok… let me buy you a drink.
 No thanks, I’m fine!
 Come on!
 Kulungile! (it’s fine)
 Just a drink! Or give me your number!! I’d like to get to know you.
 No. as I said. No.
 Ok, got it. So… are you married?
 No!?!! I am too young to marry?
 Too young?
 Yeah.
 Why?
 Because I say so.
 But you know… I want to have a wife.
 Look out for one.
 I want to have a white wife.
 Great, but it won’t be me. So go on searching.
 But… I’d love to marry you. I will work, you could take care of the house.
 What??? If I will marry, I won’t stay at home. I will work, the man can cook.
 NO! listen, I will change your mind.
 Never!
 Listen girl, the wife has to stay at home. That’s the way it is.
 I won’t be your wife, I won’t stay at home. That’s the way it is.
 But…
 No… come on now, leave me alone.
 No, but listen…let me buy you a drink, or something else, anything!
 No thanks… I’m fine. Ok, I think I have to go now.
 But I want to get to now you.
 But I will leave now. Bye.

das ist ein typischer dialog, wie wir ihn jedes wochenede erleben. wir haben uns schon daran gewöhnt, sind taffer geworden. am anfang war das doch etwas komisch... aber inzwischen ist es ganz normal. und es soll auch nicht negativ rüberkommen. das ist es gar nicht. die menschen hier sind super nett, nur manchmal nerven solche situationen eben auch. manchmal ist es aber auch lustig... kommt immer drauf an. ich wollte euch nur mal was zum schmunzeln geben und einen kleinen real life einblick.
ich denk an euch, hab euch lieb und warte auf kommentare... ;)
sobonana! esethu